Generally, we see other people’s relationships from the outside. We see couples walking comfortably around the market buying apples or bantering at a drinks party. We hardly ever get to see what they are like together in their trickier moments, what goes on when they get very upset.
I thought this link was a good read today. It’s reassuring to know that all couples have their own problems. I know I’m discovering that my boyfriend and I do.
But it’s all about working together to try to improve and making the effort to work through those problems and make the changes necessary.