Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills

I tune into reality TV every now and then. I don’t watch a lot and every episode like I used to. But when I do tune in… I have SO many thoughts. And I feel like I have no one to discuss my thoughts with so here I go. I’m just going to blog bullet points of what I’m feeling based on the new season of the RHOBH

– I’m proud of Lisa for being done with Brandi. I like Brandi but I feel last season she really burned Lisa. Lisa was such a good friend to her and Brandi totally tried to sabotage her last season. For no good reason!!
So good for Lisa for being like “um I see your true colors and the type or person you are now, so bye bye. We’re done”

-Brandi needs to realize when you make these friendships and these people let you into their lives and you building a relationship with them, that doesn’t mean that when you find new friends you tell everyone your old friend’s deepest secrets and try to make everyone hate them. She did it with Adrienne. Then Lisa, and I bet she does it to Yolanda soon enough.

-Yolanda did this whole bit tonight where her husband , David Foster , comes home from work and she’s dressed in lingerie and making him dinner. I do agree with her, that doing these type of sexy things are important to do for your husband. So they don’t get bored and find some other girl to hook up with. But just the look in his eyes as they sat eating dinner together told me he cheats on her. It’s just a vibe I get when he discussed how he would be out of the country.

Poor women.

I didn’t watch much of this season’s Real Housewives of Orange County but I did tune in tonight to watch the Reunion Part 2. Nothing like a good reunion show to fire me up and make me want to vent all my feelings out. Uggg.. these women just KILL me. Let me break down the problems I have with each woman:

New girl-Heather: I’m not sure if I like you yet. Your house is gorgeous, you seem somewhat normal. I just don’t like people that are newbies on the show and act bitchy to other cast members. Like how she treated Alexis- a little much for someone so new to the party.

Alexis: People have very low tolerance for idiots. Alexis, unfortunately is an idiot who probably got by her whole life on her good looks. Now that she’s on a reality show… people do not have patience for her stupidity. I think she’s a nice girl and is very innocent. If she would just drop the act and be real and chill, more people would like her and respect her and not care so much that she’s kind of dumb.

Vicki: Apparently everyone doesn’t want her to find love and be happy. All those women that claim they “just want to see her happy” and that they are “looking out for her” is bullshit. If they really wanted her to be happy they would bring up the issue about her boyfriend once: “Hey so I kind of get the feeling your new bf is an opportunist and might be using you for fame. I hope I’m wrong but I love you and want you to honestly be aware of this.” Then let it go. But instead all the other housewives bash Vicki’s new boyfriend and tear him down over every judgemental detail. It’s like they just want her to be alone and single. It’s Vicki’s life and if she chooses to ignore the fact that he has no car and no job and loves him anyway and is hoping he genuinely loves her, then that’s no one else’s business. Vicki did a pretty decent job defending herself but I wish she would have done better.

Gretchen: Ohhhh Gretchen. She used to be my favorite but after this season, she’s lost it. The evil Tamra is rubbing off on her and she’s almost as ugly as she is. But I have faith that Gretchen can bounce back and be the sensible girl that she is. I understand why she was calling Vicki a hypocrite, but she cant sit there and scold only one part of the team. Tamra was even worse to her about stuff and she looks dumb being Tamra’s friend but sitting there trying to call out Vicki.

Tamra: Oh where do I even begin on how much I dislike Tamra? She’s a bully and she likes to purposely say things to people to hit below the belt. She likes making fun of everyone when clearly she’s the one with the most issues. No one knows how to call her out on her bullshit. No one seems strong enough. I wish I could be on that show just so I could call her out. If anyone could shut her up and put her in her place, it would be me (I decided). Every season and every reunion show Tamra sits there pointing the finger and bashing everyone else’s lives. But it’s like, why is she so involved in everyone else? Why does she want to bring all these women down who are her castmates and even good friends? It shows her true colors and just how malicious and mean she is on the inside.

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Ohhhh snap. Shit just got real in this new Real Housewives of New Jersey trailer.

So pretty much everyone hates Teresa now. Here’s the thing. I dont like Teresa either. Her and I would not be friends…maybe just acquaintances. BUT what people need to realize with Teresa is that she’s not very smart and she has jealousy problems. That is the root of ALL the drama the other women have with her. When you have those two factors in a person, jealousy and stupidity, nothing will ever make sense and the drama will just escalate and be completely unnecessary.

It’ll be very interesting to see everything unfold this season.

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Ohhhhhh snap. The trailer for the next season of The Real Housewives of Orange County looks pretty legit.

I really cant stand Vicki or Tamra. They are SO hypocritical. Maybe this season someone will finally have the balls to put them in their place? We’ll see….

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Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

I have SO many thoughts on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hill’s latest episode:

I just watched the “intervention” episode. Where Taylor walks into Lisa’s house with the strength of 10 bulls and decides today is the day…let’s put it ALL out there.

I will start off saying I respect and understand all the things Taylor said regarding how Lisa treats her. I’m glad that she found her voice and called Lisa out.

The thing is, Lisa came to Taylor as not a close friend, but as a friend and said “I know I’m not your best friend, but I will help you if you need to talk or somewhere to go.” Taylor took that and turned it into “I am not your friend but…” There is a difference. Lisa was trying to tell Taylor that even though they arent super close…she will still be there for her. There is nothing wrong with that. Taylor spun it into what she wanted to hear because deep down she feels Lisa doesnt like her.

Well hate to be the one to break it, but I’m pretty sure Lisa doesnt like her. I think she’s okay with her when she’s around her and she’ll be cordial to her, but she just doesnt care to build a relationship. Why is that so wrong? There are plenty of people in my life that I would never want to build a best friend relationship with because I just dont click with their personality, but it doesnt mean we have to go around saying we’re enemies.

Taylor should not have tried to bring the other girls into ‘bashing Lisa time’. The issue was about her and Lisa and to try to bring the other housewives into it so she didnt feel so alone, was just wrong.

Everyone talks shit about everyone. Okay…maybe not shit..but there are still conversations that go on in ANY friendship where two or more friends will sit and talk about the other. That’s just human nature no matter how good of a person you would like to be. It’s wrong for that one friend to pick a fight, then try to call the other friends out, and say everything bad that person has said about the other. That’s exactly what Taylor was trying to pull. Obviously no one is going to be okay with that.

To end it, as Taylor sat there calling everyone out on how no one should talk behind each other’s backs and everyone needs to start being honest, Camille got pissed. She was basically like ‘You know what? Dont preach to us about being honest when you clearly arent honest with the world about the abuse that goes on in your marriage.’ BAM!

It’s unfortunate to see all of this go down, when as viewers, we all know that in the end Russell Armstrong took his own life. It’s so sad and so awful. We’re witnessing what is going on behind closed doors every day all over the world. People are being physically abused by their significant other and continue to make excuses for them and go back to them. Awareness, strength, and support from the people around you is the only way one can face it and get through it.