Tess Explains It All

What are your thoughts on a first date that only lasts 1 drink?

I pretty much set it up as a failure. ha

In my opinion, if you’re getting to know someone, it should definitely last longer than 1 drink (1 hour). The sign that someone is interested and the date is going well is when the bartender comes around and asks if you’d like another round and the both of you say yes.

Now I’m not saying the two of you should get trashed and have 3-4 drinks and start taking shots. Two drinks… maaaaybe 3 …means things are looking up!

I was recently on a date that was going pretty well for a first date. Conversation was flowing and there was an attraction. The only 2 elements you need on a first date. We both sipped our glasses of wine slowly and talked and talked and talked. I could have chugged it back in 20 minutes but I appreciated the fact that we were both taking our time. haha

But…the guy soon pulled the “I just found out I have to get some work done tonight.” and I became aware that this was his cop out; A reason to end the date early. This date would only be lasting for one drink.
I respect that he played it as slighly as he could and that he paid 😉
But girls out there should just know, if the date only lasts an hour, he’s just not that into you.