I had THE best first date today. Like one of those first dates that make you smile when you think about it later. 🙂
18 Nov 2012 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in The Single Life/Love Stories Tags: date, dating, life, love, The Single Life/Love Stories
One Drink Date
27 Mar 2012 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in The Single Life/Love Stories Tags: date, drinks, love, The Single Life/Love Stories
What are your thoughts on a first date that only lasts 1 drink?
I pretty much set it up as a failure. ha
In my opinion, if you’re getting to know someone, it should definitely last longer than 1 drink (1 hour). The sign that someone is interested and the date is going well is when the bartender comes around and asks if you’d like another round and the both of you say yes.
Now I’m not saying the two of you should get trashed and have 3-4 drinks and start taking shots. Two drinks… maaaaybe 3 …means things are looking up!
I was recently on a date that was going pretty well for a first date. Conversation was flowing and there was an attraction. The only 2 elements you need on a first date. We both sipped our glasses of wine slowly and talked and talked and talked. I could have chugged it back in 20 minutes but I appreciated the fact that we were both taking our time. haha
But…the guy soon pulled the “I just found out I have to get some work done tonight.” and I became aware that this was his cop out; A reason to end the date early. This date would only be lasting for one drink.
I respect that he played it as slighly as he could and that he paid 😉
But girls out there should just know, if the date only lasts an hour, he’s just not that into you.
My dating inner monologue…
05 Jan 2012 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in The Single Life/Love Stories Tags: date, dating, love, The Single Life/Love Stories
Here’s an idea of what goes through my head while on a first date:
“Okay. Can’t be late. I cant have him thinking I’m one of those girls that doesnt respect him and shows up late. But I can’t be early because I want to be the one that walks in second. He should spot me walking in first. Not the other way around.”
“Oh there he is! Okay…shorter that what I expected. Damn….I shouldn’t have worn heels. Dammit why did I wear heels??!”
“Hug him… smile. Look gorgeous. Act natural and friendly…. wonder what he’s thinking of my outfit? Does he think I look hot or is he wishing he could run the other way right now? …He looks good. I could picture him as my future husband.”
“Okay we’re ordering drinks and dinner. Lord… what do I choose? Dont want to look like a lush. Should I go for wine? Wine says sophistication and class. Or should i get a beer?  A beer will say “I’m a fun girl who likes sports and doesnt take life too seriously! Damn I’ll just order a vodka soda. That shows I can handle my booze but I watch my weight cause I order it with soda water. Perfect” ….
“Casual conversation time… dont allow any awkward pauses. Those are the worst. I need to make my life sound fun and interesting. When I mention my job is in accounting, make it sound way more exciting than it really is. Just by saying my job is in accounting he’ll think I’m smart and successful. Perfect! But he can’t think I’m more successful than him. Ego thing.”
“Oh gosh dinner has arrived. Glad my salad looks filling. I mean, I LOVE salads. Order them all the time. So filling. His steak looks amazing. I could go for a steak right now. Damn why didnt I order a steak??”
“Oooo second vodka soda is starting to kick it. I’m funny I’m charming… he is loving me. This is going SO well! Why do I stress about dating? It’s SO much fun!!”
“Oh crap bill has arrived. Should I do the reach for my wallet? Offer to pay half? I dont want him to think I’m expecting him to pick up the tab…even though I am. Then he’ll think I’m one of THOSE girls. High maintenance. Okay I’ll offer.”
“Yes! He paid the whole tab himself. Success!! This one is a keeper!! What a gentleman. Cant wait to tell the girls after he picked up the tab. They will be SO impressed.”
“Okay date is coming to an end. He offered to walk me to my car. Make sure to thank him for dinner once again and express what a wonderful time I had. I’m nervous. Crap I’m so nervous. What do I say now?? Did he think this went as well as I did? Is he going to try to kiss me goodnight? Oh gosh… he’s facing me. He’s leaning in. He kissed me!! Ahhhh! Trying not to show my excitement. Act natural. Act calm. Say goodbye and be on your merry way.”
“Well that date was a success. We’re practically boyfriend girlfriend now. I can’t wait to see him again. Wonder when I’ll hear from him again. I cant wait to tell my friends ALL about this!!”
30 Dec 2011 Leave a comment
I saw this article on Thought Catalog today. Soo funny and amusing. It makes me want to write up my own inner monologue about when I’m on a first date. Stay tuned…
Date Night
06 Dec 2011 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in The Single Life/Love Stories Tags: date, love, The Single Life/Love Stories
Yes.. I’m sure you’ve all been wondering how my date went this last weekend. And I’m finally here to write about it.
I had NO idea what to expect because a) I haven’t been on a real date in years and b) he could have looked totally different than his online pictures. That’s the scariest part. Well…I walked into the restaurant, saw him right away and THANK GOD … he was cute and normal looking.
The date was pretty perfect. We had appetizers, we wine tasted, and we talked. There werent any awkward pauses or forced conversation…it just went smoothly.
It’s funny when you meet a guy and you’re on a date with him for the first time. I know I personally do a quick mental check list on what I see:
Hair – dorky, casual or hot? Hot
Pants- trying too hard, no sense of style, perfect, casual? Casual
Shirt- Â dressy, casual, too tight, no sense of style? Casual
Height-short, tall, good enough? Short
Personality- natural, goofy, dorky, douchey, innocent? Natural and goofy
Established in life- no, yes, getting there? Getting there
Face- attractive, not attractive, potential? Attractive
As you can see… most of my analyzing was positive. So we were off to a good start. The date lasted 4 1/2 hours and if I had to rate it I would say all in all it was about a 7. I could tell we had a lot in common but at the same time we were complete opposites. He laughed at my jokes (which I appreciate), he kept the conversation interesting, and he was sweet. He casually brought up other dates he had been on and he mentioned the word “calories” one too many times. But he did buy me a new drink that will be my new go to drink for awhile. Vodka soda with a splash of red bull. Yum!
The date ended beautifully and I felt great about it. Now let the games begin! Will he call? Will there be a second date? Should I call? What is he thinking? You know… #singlegirlproblems
01 Dec 2011 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in The Single Life/Love Stories Tags: date, love, personal, The Single Life/Love Stories
I may or may not be going on a date this Saturday. I may or may not be super nervous. I may or may not be jinxing myself because I always talk about this stuff way too soon and nothing comes of it. But it’s my Single Girl Blog!! A girl’s gotta write about it right??
Single Girl Story #11
27 Oct 2011 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in The Single Life/Love Stories Tags: coffee, date, The Single Life/Love Stories
I debated with myself this afternoon if I wanted to walk over to Coffee Bean or not. This is a daily debate I have almost every day. To spend the $4, or to not spend the $4?…that is the question.
I said eff it and I walked over. I was glad I did because it’s a BEAUTIFUL day out in Beverly Hills right now. The sun is shining, clear skys…but its not too hot. Just perfect.
As I was walking back with my iced cappuccino in hand, I noticed a service truck creep up next to me. I looked over and there was some guy driving smiling at me. He said “Hi! How are you?” and I smiled back (because I am a nice person) “Hello! How are you?” Then he proceeds to ask me if he can talk to me for a second. In which I reply “Sorry I have to get back to work.” Then he keeps talking but sure enough there is a lawn mower guy blowing leaves around next to me so I cant hear a word this guy is saying. I probably asked “what?” 7 times before I finally heard him.
“Would you like to go on a lunch date with me sometime?” -asked this guy, wearing an orange jump suit, driving a Beverly Hills service truck.
Always trying to be on my toes I quickly replied “Oh um… I have a boyfriend. So that probably wouldnt go over well.”
He said “You do??? Oh man.” and drove off.
Props to this guy for asking a random girl walking down the street if she would like to go to lunch sometime. I hang out with guys in far more appropriate situations who never get the balls to ask me out.
22 Sep 2011 Leave a comment
Well here they are! Seen out in public again together. Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes walking around the Griffith Observatory in Hollywood yesterday. Most random couple ever.
source: justjared.com
23 Aug 2011 Leave a comment
by calabri2 in PoP Culture Tags: date, vanessa hudgens
Vanessa Hudgens seen out and about in Los Angeles with some unknown fellow. Hmmm new boyfriend V? He’s not so bad…
The hair…the hair! Still not over it. Let’s hope it grows fast.
source: justjared.com
Tess Explains It All 