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Dating is so funny. Like tonight, I’m about to go on a date with a guy I’ve never met and we are going to sit there… talking about our lives… and be completely interested in one another in the moment.

It’s such a funny concept when you think of it. When I’m on a first date the main things that run through my head are: “Is he cute?” “Is his personality normal?” “Is he making me laugh?” “Does he seem interested in me?” If the answer is yes to all those questions then it will be an A+ date!!! And that’s all I can hope for…every time.

If the date is a fail then you just have to walk away from it happy you put yourself out there and hopeful for the next one.

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Today my yoga instructor told me this amazing story about her friend who was just having an awful week. She had a ton of things that kept popping up that she needed to get done or fixed. Then she had a meeting with a woman at the Los Angeles Observatory, which can be a bit of a drive mid-day in Hollywood traffic. She drove to her meeting and didnt know that the person who was supposed to meet her, had emailed her to cancel. Not call, not text, but email. Who checks their email every second, right? 

She gets all the way up there and discovers it was a waste of time because the person isn’t coming. She decides to sit down at a nearby cafe and get a bite to eat. And as she was sitting there, all of a sudden out of the corner of her eye she sees movement and something flying down the sidewalk. Without hesitation or thinking, she grabbed that moving object.

Well guess what it is! A freaking baby stroller!! A mom had forgotten to put the breaks on the stroller, the stroller was on a steep hill and off it went, speeding down the hill! This woman reached out and grabbed it and stopped the stroller! She basically saved this baby’s life. Isn’t that amazing?!?!

Now if that isn’t a life lesson, then I don’t know what is.  Even in your darkest moment, or when you think everything around you and in your life is going wrong, a moment happens that makes you realize there is a silver lining. My yoga instructor’s friend saw the positive in the situation and said to herself “I was meant to be here. Even in all my frustration, I was supposed to go through all of this so I could be here to save that baby from tragedy.”

Now we’re not always going to have some stand-out epic moment that makes us easily see this realization. But it’s a nice reminder to always look for your silver lining. Whether large or small, if you take the time to notice, it can make a huge difference in the your mood and give you inspiration for the day.

Remember when I was an online cutter? And I would purposely torture myself and stalk my ex’s instagram account and his girlfriend’s account just so I could see how cute and in love they were??

Well about 3 or so months ago (actually I don’t exactly know the time frame..it feels like forever ago) I found out that the two of them moved in together and I knew that had to be the end of it. No more online stalking!!! So… I said I would never look again and I haven’t!!! I’m quite proud of myself that it deserves a blog post. I think about it every few days and I get so tempted to just peek and see what the two of them have been up to, but I don’t do it. *slow clap for me*

Me. haha

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Life can be funny sometimes. Today I had a first date planned and an amazing weekend ahead. And then for some reason life decided to give me a broken wrist this morning instead and it ruined everything. I’m a true believer in everything happening for a reason, I just can’t wait to find out what reason is behind this crap.

Another daily work convo with my single bestie.

Me: What if we just went on a date with every single guy that hit us up on okcupid?
Bestie: We’d be on a hundred dates by now. And probably dead from a creeper.”

Another daily work convo with my single bestie.

Me: It’s okay. We’ll probably have children at the same time and they can go to school together. They’ll go to Santa Monica elementary school. We can drop them off in our Range Rovers before we go to mommy breakfast and mani pedis.
Bestie: and then some afternoon shopping in Beverly Hills
Me: right.
Bestie: Then the nanny will pick them up and take them to a play date.
Me: And we’ll hit up a yoga class.
Bestie: And we’ll make good family dinners by the time everyone is home.
Me: Exactly. For our rich hot husbands, when they get home at like 6.
Bestie: Yup, they’ll come home with flowers and spend time with the kids while we’re finishing up dinner. Then they’ll do the dishes…we’ll put the kids to bed and then it’s cuddle time with wine on the couch.
Me: And that’s our lives.
Bestie: We should also look into volunteering once a week and maybe be a part of a Junior League or something.
Me: Oh of course!

So it’s been a month now that the boy I was dating left me and moved across the country. And it would be easy for the single girl in me to be like “oh it was so tragic! Worst month of my life! I was SO depressed!”

But guess whaaaaaat. That isn’t the case at all! I never really thought it would be but you know, when you’re single, and you have any moment of something real, feelings can be more escalated than necessary. But luckily I got through the first month and only had 2 mini breakdowns over it. 

Him and I still talk almost every day…but I don’t feel butterflies fly through my stomach when I hear from him or anything. And that of course that is because he is ALL the way in NY and I will never see him again. Well maybe..but not in the way that will ever affect my future. There are moments where I’ll be driving and out of nowhere I’ll catch myself thinking of him, and this pit forms in my stomach because I do miss him. But I have to remind myself to just smile at those memories and move on.  

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