I’m in love with Beyonce’s new music video for “Best Thing I Never Had” . I just love songs about woman letting go of the loser and finding true love. We all do it…we fall hard for the asshole and think we’ll never get over how they broke our heart. Then we open our eyes and find someone so much better that makes us think “Why did we even care about that other guy?” Though all girls find themselves dating guys that arent good for them…we always come to our senses and end up with the good guy. The guys that treat us the way every woman should be treated. With love, respect and kindness. 

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Why Are You Single-Confessions of A Highbrow

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Single Girl Story #8

Why do guys have some sort of radar on them that let’s them know when you have finally gotten over them? It’s like “Oh! She’s over me?!?! I miss her! I’m going to call her and tell her how much I miss her and want her back!”

How about no? How about you want me back a year ago when I wanted you?! Why did you torture me…hurt me…force me to move on from you…and then decide later that you want me? So unfair. Luckily in this situation I have truly 100% moved on from this guy and I wont get sucked back into liking him again.

My heart is safe. 

Men Are Like Cabs

Miranda: “Men are like cabs. When they’re available, their light goes on. They wake up one day and they decide they’re ready to settle down, have babies, whatever. And they turn their light on. The next woman they pick up, boom, that’s the one they’ll marry. It’s not faith, it’s dumb luck.”

One of my favorite quotes from Sex and the City. I really agree with what Miranda says here. 90% of the time a relationship moves forward to love and marriage is when the man is ready. Women are always ready. It’s the men we have to wait on to finally decide “Ok, I’m ready to settle down now and make this real.” Why do you think men are the ones that buy the ring and get down on one knee and propose?

 I’ve known girls who have dated guys for YEARS and for whatever reasons, they break up. Within a few months, that guy has moved onto a new girlfriend and proposes to her within 6 months of the relationship. He finally decided to turn his light on. It was the girl before that was just unlucky to meet him and have a relationship with him when his light was off. 

So I’ll just continue to live my single life in the same sense of how I hail cabs. Throw my arm up in the air and hope the man I jump into has his light on.

For love is heaven, and heaven is love.

Sir Walter Scott

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Signs You Will Soon Fall In Love Or Marry

My mom sent me a book titled “The Book of Love”. There is one section of the book titled “Signs You Will Soon Fall In Love Or Marry”. Here are a few signs I need to be on the look for….

“If you hear a bird call from the east.” (I have no sense of direction so I wouldnt even know what direction to listen for birds)

“If a man wipes his hands on your apron he’ll soon fall in love with you. Attempt to precipitate this by offering your apron to the man may backfire. He must reach for the apron on his own!” (Well since I never cook, let alone wear an apron…a man wont be reaching for my apron anytime soon)

“On Saint George’s Day (April 23), go into a field or meadow with at least four other single women and one white dog. Blindfold the dog, then place yourselves in a circle around the field. The first woman the dog touches will be married within the year” (Okay now this one just sounds like a blast. I just have to find a white dog and 4 single women that will be willing to go into a meadow with me. hahahha)

“If you find bubbles floating in your noncarbonated drink, love is coming soon. If the bubbles are touching the rim of the glass this means that with love will also come wealth.” (Nice!! Love and wealth!! I’ll be secretly praying for bubbles on the rim of my class from this point on)

Thought for the day…

Is it weird that I am completely happy and content with my life but at the same time I yearn for a boyfriend and to find love? How can I feel both things at the exact same time? I’m happy being single yet I want boyfriend! This makes for a very confused brain. 

June is finally here!! Ready for my summer love! 🙂

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That moment…

when you’re stopped at a stoplight and the guy crossing the street is very cute. You both make eye contact, then you look down at the baby he’s pushing in the stroller, then he looks down at the baby he’s pushing and then you look back at each other and glance away.

Ya that happened today…

Cameron Diaz looking HOT on the cover of Cosmopolitan Magazine. Love her!

“I think we have to make our own rules. I don’t think we should live our lives in relationships based off old traditions that don’t suit our world any longer. I think a lot of people are married to people they’re not romantic with any more. I just didn’t ever marry anybody that I then had to get divorced from. We break up. We move on. Guys need women who challenge them and don’t let them get away with their shit. Women, conversely, need to not be crazy bitches who blow up when their guys tell them something that scares them. Women who know who they are and are confident are the sexiest. I don’t find women who are looking for people’s approval to be sexy. I mean, it’s easy to seduce, but to be truly attractive, to bring people in and be sexy, I think that comes from the inside.”

source: perezhilton.com justjared.com

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