This blows my mind. It’s so freaking cold that Lake Michigan is now a sea of ice balls!
08 Jan 2014 Leave a comment

Ooooo Emily Maynard from The Bachelor and The Bachelorette is engaged!!! His name is Tyler Johnson and she met him at church years and years ago, I guess.
I was just asking my friend last night as we watched the season premiere of The Bachelor if she was still single or seeing anyone.
Well I guess she’s been seeing someone! 3rd times a charm right?? Or is this the 4th?
Long live Jef with one F!!!!
picture: Emily’s instagram account
Annoying Guys From Online Dating:
08 Jan 2014 Leave a comment
in Uncategorized Tags: dating, life, love, stupid guys
Guy #1: Randomly out of the blue he texted me around 7pm Saturday night and said “I got a dvd screener of ‘American Hustle’ I am going to watch on my movie screen. 🙂 What are you doing tonight?”
Me: “That sounds so fun. But I can’t tonight. :-/”
Guy #1: “No, that’s not what I meant. I was just telling you what I’m doing and asking you what you were up to.”
Oh really?? Really? You just like to randomly text me in the middle of the day and tell me what your plans are when I didnt even ask?! And I’m not supposed to assume that that’s an invite?
Aint nobody got time for that, weirdo.
Guy#2: “So when are you available so we can go on a date?”
Me: “Next week sometime. Weds maybe?”
Guy #2: “Maybe? I don’t do maybes. If the best you got is maybe, I’ll pass.”
Me: “Okay dramatic. I didnt mean it like that. I meant it as a question. Like Wednesday works for me, would it work for you too?”
Guy #2: “Okay Wednesday works! See you then! 🙂 “
Ummmmmm no…you will not be seeing me then.
08 Jan 2014 Leave a comment

Lauren Conrad on her website did a post about her New Years Resolutions and I thought it was a great template to follow for myself. Here are mine:
A Bad Habit I’m Going To Break: Binge eating on fast food and chips. #myweekness
A Destination I’d Like To Visit: Well I’ve already fallen in love with New York the one time I’ve been there. But I really want to go again and spend more time there. And see a Broadway show.
I’m Going To Work Harder At: Focusing on myself. Working on my goals, taking care of my body and just finding love for who I am.
A Project I’d Like To Finish: My new blog
A Class I’d Like To Take: Creative Writing
I’d Like To Spend More Time Doing: Running, walking and riding my bike on the beach
A Food I Want To Eat More Of: Sushi! Here in Los Angeles the sushi is a-mazingggg and I’d really like to try out all the different sushi places So-Cal has to offer. Even it’ll cost me a million dollars. haha.
I Want To Wear More: pencil skirts, heels, and belts. (not all at the same time of course, but they can be!)
03 Jan 2014 Leave a comment
The other day I realized I was single.
It will always hit you when you least expect it, at the most inconvenient time. And it never waits around. You have to fight for it.





