Tess Explains It All

There comes a time in every single girl’s life where she has to see her ex boyfriend with a new girl. It’s not fun, and it’s not enjoyable. The whole time as you stare at pictures of them together on facebook you judge them and think, “Is she cuter than me?” “Why do they look so happy?” “How come he’s moved on but I haven’t?”

This happened to me recently with a guy who I guess you could say I’ve never been committed to but the love has always been there. Living in different cities has always kept us from officially being together. But you know how every girl has that one perfect guy in their mind? That one guy that every new guy she dates she always find herself comparing the two? Well that’s who Kyle is to me. Kyle Kyle Kyle…. the boy I met junior year of college and it was instant connection. 6 years later and both still single, with almost no real relationships under our belts, we still talk all the time and stay interested in one another’s lives. We’ve “ended” things numerous times, fought, stopped speaking for months, but we always manage to end up back in contact. 

I recently saw on his instagram a photo of him and some new girl. I immediately stalked like any normal girl would and discovered that they were either together, or in the beginning stages of dating. Even though I have been out there dating as well and Kyle and I are nothing official…seeing him getting serious with a new girl is not a fun thought. I texted my bestie to discuss and like any true friend would, she said to me,

“That may be his new girlfriend, but you are his wife.”

And just like that…. the world was on balance again.

Okay I know, I know. It sounds a tad creepy but don’t take me too seriously or literally.
But really, who cares about this dumb fake-boobed beezy that’s recently entered his life. At the end of the day… she’s meaningless and him and I… well we have something far more special.